Love is beautiful, it doesn't envy, isn't not rude, it doesn't keep records of wrongs, it's not self- seeking and is not angered easily. 1 Corinthians 13 verse 1 teaches us what love Is, perfect and true love. Love is a good
feeling, it makes you feel high and smile for no reason.
However, the person we fall for, breaks us, betray, causes us pain and make us feel empty, stupid, lost and regretful.But you should never beat your self up because someone played you, it's their loss.
Always trust your instincts, if you think your partner is sleeping with someone else that might be true. Here are early signs to look out for
#1 Suddenly has lost interest in bed
Who can truly know their partner other than you? You know how often you used to make Love, you know your partner's excitement when you have to do It, the energy.
If all of the sudden your partner shows no interest in being intimate with you not just sex but he/she doesn't touch you like he use too. Those kisses on the forehead, unexpected behind hugs all gone.
#2 Pay more attention to self grooming
Your partner pays more attention to the way they look, usually he leaves his hair and bead grow out just for a while.
Now he pays more attention to self grooming, he's always on point, he buys expensive clothes, new underwears that you've never seen him wearing around you, new cologne chances are he's trying to impress someone.
#3 New moves in bed
All of a sudden your partner showcases new moves in bed and tells you how to do them. This is not always right since technology introduced pornography but it can be a sign of someone knew in their life and is teaching them all these moves.
#4 They don't check up on you
Your partner usually checks up on you, sends you text messages, calls you throughout the day just to show that they're thinking about you matter how busy they are. If all of that changes, replaced by excuses that's the sign right there someone else is actually getting all of that.
#5 Showers you with gift unexpectedly
Your partner isn't really the romantic type who just showers you with gift unexpectedly and without an occasion. But now he just buys you surprise gifts just to ease his guilt that he is seeing someone else.
#6 Locked cellphone
Your partner becomes protective of their cellphone. Their screen is locked but wasn't before. He takes his phone with him wherever he goes even to the toilet or shower. This is because he's afraid that their mistress will call or text. When you're together he always leaves his phone faced down.
#7 Suspicious late calls
He sudden receives calls late night or texts. He'll stay up all night texting with someone. Your partner is definitely sleeping with someone else.
#8 Takes a shower as soon as coming back
When he comes home, he goes straight to shower, he may want to wash off the other persons smell. But he usually comes to you first to say hello and kiss you.
#9 Always making excuses
He comes up with all the excuses in the book when you suggest you want to spend more time. But before, he'll go off his way just to spend time with you. He tells you he is tired, he is working late or he is going on a business meeting in the weekend. he is not coming back home for 3 days
#10 Strange contact names
If your partner is cheating on you, he won’t act stupidly and risk you figuring out what’s going on. So, his idea will be to store the other woman’s name in his phone under an alias name. Or you'll notice an unsaved number that's calls often, doesn't make sense why would someone not save a number of person who calls them frequently.
If you feel it inside that your partner is sleeping with someone else, trust your guts because they may be warning you about something and you'll regret not listening to your instincts
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